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Default My Holiday Wish for You: Inner Wealth - 12-21-2006, 07:21 AM

A month or two ago, I heard Dan Kennedy recommend one of Napoleon Hill's lesser known books, Get Rich With Peace of Mind. Whatever he said intrigued me enough to buy the book. On the same recording, Kennedy talked about how ironic it was that Hill died poor, and that the real success was Hill's protege, Clement Stone.

I just finally started reading this book this morning, and on page vi I found an amazing statement that I totally agree with. Hill says that real wealth is not measured by money alone. People actually want money because they presume it's an end to something else. And here is his definition of that something else, in part:

It is freedom from negative forces which may take possession of the mind, and from any such negative attitudes as worry and inferiority.

It is freedom from any feeling of want.

It is freedom from self-induced mental and physical ailments of the kind which chronically degrade life.

It is freedom from all fears, especially the seven basic fears we shall expose in all their ugliness.

It is freedom from the common human weakness of seeking something for nothing.

It is possession of the joy of work and accomplishment.

It is the habit of being one's self and doing one's own thinking.

It is the habit of laughing at the petty misfortunes which may overtake you.

[There's more, but the book is still under copyright protection, so that's as much as I can quote here.]

Are balance sheets and earnings statements obvious and irrefutable proof of success? I don't believe so. Not by a long shot.

Hill wrote this book in his eighties, and regardless of his monetary net worth at that time, or at the time he died, it's clear to me that he had the more profound type of wealth in abundance.

Peace of mind in Hill's sense is wealth beyond measure. In this holiday season, I hope that you all have the opportunity to experience it.

Sincerely,
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Default Re: My Holiday Wish for You: Inner Wealth - 12-21-2006, 07:29 AM

Awesome post Marcia.

Thank you!

Here's something I read the other day that has so much truth in it as well:

"Your outer world is simply a reflection of your inner world! A lack of money is not a problem, it is merely a symptom of what's going on underneath! The fastest and only way to permanently change your financial situation on the outside, is to first change it on the inside."
T. Harv Eker
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Default Re: My Holiday Wish for You: Inner Wealth - 12-21-2006, 05:30 PM

Marcia,

To set the record straight, Napoleon Hill did not die poor. To the contrary, when he died on November 8, 1970, at age 87 in his retirement home on Paris Mountain near Greenville, S. C., he was quite wealthy. As I state in the appendix to Hill's "Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised" (which I edited and annotated) "He [Hill] was in relatively good health up until his sudden death and had recently undergone a successful cataract operation -- the better to allow him to continue his lifelong habit of reading, research, and reflection on the principles of success." He made and lost fortunes and stared at bankruptcy numerous times throughout his early life and into middle age, but when he died, he left a sizable fortune, despite that fact that a decade earlier he had used significant personal assets to establish a foundation to carry on his work.

You are quite right about Hill's emphasis on "riches" being far more than financial wealth. Many people make the mistake of believing that "Think and Grow Rich!" is too materialistic, with its emphasis on wealth-building skills, and too self-centered, with its emphasis on self-reliance, personal achievement, and getting ahead in the world. Such people fail to understand how "spiritual" and altruistic Hill's philosophy of success is at heart.

He once wrote that his sole object in publishing "is to bring men and women together in a spirit of closer cooperation, regardless of race or creed, and cause them to realize the award which awaits those who place principle above the dollar and humanity above the individual; to inspire those who have not yet 'arrived' and help them to realize that the rainbow's end can be found only by the pathway which leads through the field of useful service;...to bring men to realize that success lies not so much in owning property, as in rendering service which helps to ameliorate the hardships of humanity and deposits something to the credit of posterity..."

I for several years was executive editor of "Think & Grow Rich Newsletter." I had many dinner and other conversations with Hill's official biographer. A Hill nephew was kind enough to let me sit at the oaken desk where Hill wrote many of his books. I learned from their first-hand experience. Hill died with money in his pocket and friends in his heart. He led a very rich life.
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Default Re: My Holiday Wish for You: Inner Wealth - 12-21-2006, 08:00 PM

Ross,

Thank you very much for adding that information. I am not sure why Dan Kennedy said that Hill left next to no money to his widow when he died and that Hill was monetarily unsuccessful. In any case, I found the book I quoted inspiring and wanted to share its spirit with this board.

Happy holidays,
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Default Re: My Holiday Wish for You: Inner Wealth - 12-21-2006, 08:18 PM

Marcia,

Excellent post. What I'd like to add to that is something said in John Forde's excellent newsletter "Copywriters Roundtable," in the issue that just came out today.

The article is absolutely excellent, and the things he talks about resonate with me. Let me reprint his article here, for posterity... And copywriters, please note these if you ever want a richer, fuller, more blessed life...

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The Secret to Happiness, Discovered

COPYWRITER'S ROUNDTABLE #291
December 21, 2006

Science Discovers The Secret to Happiness

"He who binds to himself a joy
Does the winged life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in Eternity's sunrise."
- William Blake

What is the secret to happiness?

Scientists have found the answer.

Four of them, in fact.

None of which come in a bottle. Or require batteries.

But all of which, I hope to share with you today, just in time for the holidays.

But before I do, some background.

Just recently, I read a book I recommend. It's called "Stumbling on Happiness." Despite the title, this is no collection of the usual "find your inner creampuff" pap.

It's written by Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert. You can read more about the book, and the author, here: Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert | Home. But to sum up...

We're often wrong about what will make us happy. In fact, we're often wrong about what made us happy in the past. We're even sadly mistaken, sometimes, about what's making us happy right now.

Huh?

Yep, it turns out that the human animal... driven as we might be by this appetite for exuberance, this rapacious hunger for rapture, this fixation on bliss... is not so good, sometimes, at figuring out what endorphin-releasing event will actually do the trick.

Here's how I justify writing about this in an ezine for marketers: Is not happiness at the core of figuring out what will motivate a customer? What, after all, can you pitch to the guy who's perfectly content?

I hope to delve deeper into the themes in Gilbert's book during 2007. Today's article is the appetizer. But there was another reason I wanted, today, to write about this.

See, last night my wife and I went to the mall.

For the record, I hate the mall. Year round, yes, but especially at this time of year. Mall minutes to me tick by like watching the hour hand sweep by on a stopwatch at the Galapagos Island annual giant turtle marathon.

Mercifully, my wife feels the same.

That's my bias. Maybe it's one you share.

But last night, we noticed something a little extra disturbing. First of all, the mall was next to empty. Surprising, with Christmas less than one week away.

But second was the look of the few people who were there, shopping. Shuffling. Unsmiling. Purposeful but vague. Unsatisfied. Maybe it was just late. Maybe someone had forgotten to dump Prozac into the food court soda machine. Maybe they'd just missed a sale.

Still, could this be what the holidays have come to?

Maybe yes. How many times, after all, have you heard about the soaring suicide rates... the relationships that hit the skids... the family gatherings that slump under the weight of dashed expectations and despair... and all at this time of year?

Is it the "stuff"... the materialism... the commercialism? Perhaps. The anti-climactic gift exchanges... the rituals that feel like ruts... the family members who act like they don't really want to be there.

It all adds up.

Fold in a nearly pathological pressure to enjoy yourself, and it's no wonder we find ourselves wondering, smack dab in the holidays, what real happiness is all about.

But like I said, you can wonder no more. It appears, apparently, that modern science has figured it all out. When it comes to happiness, here's the four-part formula that makes it happen.

First, say researchers at the University of Pennsylvania, is family and friends. As much as you can muster. How so? Sure, you might quibble, you might bicker, you might even end the night thumping each other with drumsticks.

But guess what. "The happiest people," says a USA Today article reporting the U. of P. data, "spend the least time alone."

So there's your first lesson. This holiday, pick up the phone and call a long lost friend. Or at least call your mother.

The second key, says Ed Diener, is to put away your yardstick. Specifically, avoid the trap of using "stuff" to measure your success.

That doesn't mean you can't cherish a few items. I love my Martin. I love my Fender. And my laptop and I, we've got a relationship that borders on "gone too far." What it does mean, however, is that a life focusing on getting ever better "stuff" -- and only that -- can only end in tears.

Third, says the same USA Today article, is the secret of having "flow" in your life. That's how Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihali describes the continuous act of pursuing -- and getting lost in -- your talents. "People," he says, "feel best when doing what they do best."

Last, and this is possibly the most successful way to find happiness, says research from University of Michigan psychologist Chris Peterson, is the combined virtues of gratitude and forgiveness.

How so? Just saying thanks and meaning it can boost your mood, many fold. Gratitude doesn't just make the recipient feel good. It has a way of reminding you what's going right for you, as well.

Acts of forgiveness, though, might even have a stronger impact. "Forgiveness is the trait most strongly linked to happiness," says Peterson, "It's the queen of all virtues and probably the hardest to come by."

So there you have it.

The secrets to eternal happiness.

Family and friends. Work that you love. Freedom from stuff. And most of all, gratitude toward what you've got... and forgiveness for those things, for whatever reason, from which you feel you've been denied.

Say... wait a minute. Doesn't that sound like what the spirit of these holidays were REALLY supposed to be about all along?



Here's wishing you holidays filled with family and friends, well-earned happiness, and all the luck, character, and good health you deserve (and then some).

Next week, I'll take a break from the CR to spend some extra time with loved ones. I hope you'll do the same.

See you in 2007!


Michel Fortin

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Default Re: My Holiday Wish for You: Inner Wealth - 12-21-2006, 09:16 PM

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Awesome post Marcia.

Thank you!

Here's something I read the other day that has so much truth in it as well:




"Your outer world is simply a reflection of your inner world! A lack of money is not a problem, it is merely a symptom of what's going on underneath! The fastest and only way to permanently change your financial situation on the outside, is to first change it on the inside."
T. Harv Eker



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"Secrets of the Millionaire Mind"
A wonderful message, Marcia.

Interesting quote that you choose, Stephen.

And I agree with it, up to a point. But I also think that it's somewhat counter to the spirit of what Napolean Hill and John Forde were communicating.

I know this a bit treacly, but I think there's a first things first aspect that needs to be kept in mind whenever we start contemplating the "attraction" mindset.

None of the things that were mentioned are affected by money. Not one.

Now don't get me wrong, I'm extremely interested in money.

But I find it noteworthy that Napolean made and lost more than one fortune.

I'd wager he was able to look at "poverty" and "wealth" with equanimity. See I don't think your outer world is a reflection of your inner world, if you're living by those principles.

If you're living right, people will look at you and see how rich you are, regardless of your circumstances.

Of course; all things being equal, I'll take the cash.

A.


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