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Originally Posted by drkilstein Referral fees are a really good way to end a relationship.
This is an example of tactical thinking. (1)
If you follow the teaching of Jay Abraham. AND they are
not just academic but strategic and become part of your
life, you want a different kind of referral program.
Check out Jay's work on referrals for more details. |
I think that is about more then money.
we don't give our friend money, but gift.
it is about a returned courtesy.
it may be translated in an amount of money (refferel fee) or in an other way.
referal fee may induce this perception :
"you refer client to me, and I give you a referal fee that all" (no one own something to the other), the good deal is to go beyond money.
when someone reffer a client to you it is not a kind action , but it is simply mean that this person :
1)respect you.
2)trust you.
3)and that you are in his mind.
and no amount of money can be a price for those 3.
so, when we take refferel and fee regarding only the material side (money ) it may induce the :"
end a relationship" if the reffered person forget or miss the courtisy to send something.
and this is what this quote is about :
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that is cool...
There was another copywriter on here that
posted a job he didn't have time for and someone
else took it and didn't send a referral fee and it
erked him.
Definitely a good idea to foster good alliances!
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remember; we don't offer a friend money but gift.
and this is the subtility.
I disagree wuth DOC in one thing the sentence (1), I think that this behavior may and have to be natural one.
we don't plane to be a friend or a courtious person, it is just an attitude.
people often do that, when some one X help an other Y, the helped one often say :"if you need something, please don't hesitate and ask me".
he don't say :"hey here is a 10$ or any amount of money" .
you can send money too, but it is about the thinking (if you send make it sound a gift not as an obligation).
sometimes words are worth gold.
a simple email (thank you for reffering this client to me, ...it will be my plesure if I can help in any way , please don't hesitate to ask ...)
is better then giving a NUDE refferal Fee.
because those courtisy in word may open the door to a worthy partenership and a solid one and may be more then partner.
it is more then money.
and remember we don't offer money for friend, but a gift.
this is my vision I may be wrong.